Are you caught in a Trauma Vortex?
Do you feel hyper vigilant and afraid?
Are you always wondering what is going to happen next?
Is your radar tuned in to everyone’s body language, movements, tone of voice, micro expressions?
Do you feel like you’re in a fog, confused, and questioning your sanity?
Are you exhausted all the time?
Are you afraid their public image or job will be negatively impacted and leave you financially unstable?
Are you afraid you won’t be able to survive and provide for your children if you chose to leave?
Do you feel incapable, inadequate, or insignificant?
Are you afraid of judgment and blame from your faith community?
Does your partner tell you no one else will want you?
Are you staying because you gave your word and you’re not a quitter?
Do you fear if you ask for change it will break up your family?
Do you believe your faith community won’t support your need to seek safety and peace?