FOR FAITH-FILLED WOMEN NAVIGATING COERCIVE CONTROL, NARCISSISTIC ABUSE, AND EMOTIONALLY DESTRUCTIVE MARRIAGES.
You Are Not crazy.
You are seeing exactly
what is happening.
Most coaches and therapists treat what happened to you.
Dr. Lisa studies who did it.
She connects the dots others don’t even recognize are dots — the finances, the patterns, the trauma, the abuser’s psychology, and the person standing in the middle of all of it. You.
When you work with Dr. Lisa, the goal isn’t just healing. It’s full restoration - emotional, physical, and spiritual.
“She didn’t just study trauma. She studied abusers. I received strategic expertise, not just emotional support.”
— HH
Just truth — clearly spoken, from someone who understands exactly what you’re living.
If Any of This Sounds Like Your Life,
You’re in the Right Place.
You’ve walked away from another long conversation with no resolution of the issue. You walk away more confused than when it started.
You’ve been told to pray more, submit more, try harder. And things only get worse.
You apologize constantly — but you’re never quite sure what for.
You’ve sat in a counseling session and left feeling like the problem, not the person being helped.
You don’t trust your own memory.
You know something is wrong. And nothing you do makes it right.
I believe you.
It’s not because of you. It’s happening to you.
you have spent years managing his moods, rehearsing conversations before having them, and being told you’re the problem.
You are not the problem. What you are living with has a name. And there is a precise, strategic path through it.
She Doesn’t Just Understand What You’re Going Through.
she understands who did it.
Dr. Lisa Dawn Fox has spent more than a decade studying two things most coaches only study one of: the women who are living in the trauma of coercive control — and the psychology of the people who harm them.
That dual lens is what makes her different. She can sit with you in the pain and tell you exactly what happened, why it happened, and what your abuser is likely to do next. That’s not just emotional support. That’s strategic expertise — and it’s that expertise which makes the difference.
She is faith-integrated in everything she does — which means she will never ask you to choose between your healing and your faith. She will challenge bad theology that has been weaponized against you. And she will tell you the truth, even when it’s hard to hear.
credentials & Certifications
✓ Doctorate in Surgery (Dr.) —Surgical, medical and clinical foundation
✓ UC, San Diego —BA Psychology, Double Minor Biology and Chemistry
✓ Master Certified Professional Coach (MCPC) —Certified Life Coach Institute — highest coaching credential level
✓ ICF-Credentialed (ACC) —International Coaching Federation
✓ APSATS-Credentialed (CPC) —Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model (MPTM) — Betrayal Trauma
✓ Domestic Abuse Victim’s Advocate —Certified advocacy for survivors of domestic abuse
✓ Deconstructing Gaslighting Specialist -Certified (CDGS) —Specialized training in gaslighting identification and recovery
✓ Divorce Coach-Certified —Strategic support through the divorce process
✓ WILD Clarity Coach-Certified —Specialized training in abuser identification and Spiritual abuse
✓ Neuro Transformation Coach-Certified —Specialized training in Neuroscience to heal trauma
Dr. Lisa works in collaboration with a trusted network of specialists — including Private Investigator and Personal Protection Strategists, Certified Divorce Financial Analysts, Certified Divorce Mortgage Authorities, Certified Attorneys, Social Service professionals, and other vetted experts. When your situation calls for a specialist she doesn’t cover personally, she knows exactly who to bring in.
“She sees the whole picture — the numbers, the trauma, the patterns, and the person ”
— SH
Dr. Lisa Dawn Fox is a certified trauma recovery coach and coercive control specialist. She is not a licensed therapist or mental health professional. All coaching services are for educational and strategic support purposes only and do not constitute therapy, medical advice, or legal counsel.
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why Dr. Lisa’s different
There are coaches who understand trauma. There are therapists who understand abuse. There are financial advocates who understand divorce. Dr. Lisa understands all of it — at once — through a faith-integrated lens. Here’s what that means for you.
She Studies Abusers, Not Just Survivors
Most coaches focus entirely on healing what was done to you. Dr. Lisa studies who did it — their psychology, their tactics, the patterns they follow, and the moves they make next. That means you don’t just recover from the last attack. You see the next one coming before it lands.
She Connects the Dots Others Don’t Know Are Dots
The finances. The legal exposure. The abuser’s psychology. The trauma patterns. The faith questions. The custody implications. These things look separate — but they aren’t. Dr. Lisa sees the whole picture at once and builds a plan from all of it, not just one piece.
She Has a Framework — Not Just Empathy
Empathy matters. But it doesn’t get you out. The BEAUTY from ASHES Method is a structured, proven framework built specifically for intelligent, faith-filled women navigating coercive control. It is a plan with a destination — not an open-ended process that keeps you circling the same pain.
This isn’t therapy. iT’s not a support group. This is a strategic partnership with a specialist who has spent years at the exact intersection where your faith, your trauma, your abuser’s psychology, and your future all meet.
she enters here
She enters doubting her own reality.
She enters triggered and reactive in every interaction with him.
She enters terrified of confrontation and walking on egg shells.
She enters frozen, unable to make decisions.
She enters with her identity erased.
She enters isolated, embarrassed, unable to explain her situation.
She enters saying yes when she means no, people pleasing out of fear.
She enters surviving.
she leaves here
She leaves certain of what she saw, what happened, and what she knows.
She leaves calm, grounded, and strategic — even under pressure.
She leaves prepared, regulated, and living from her own center.
She leaves clear on her non-negotiables and her next step.
She leaves knowing her feelings and needs, with her identity reclaimed and expanding.
She leaves supported, believed, and part of a community that gets it.
She leaves living from her protective boundaries, communicates clearly and honestly.
She leaves flourishing on sacred ground.
the woman you were before him is still here.
He took her voice, her certainty, her sense of self.
now she’ll rise to reclaim her voice, her truth, and the life that is hers.
You've been confused, blamed, and exhausted — on purpose. I don’t just understand what was done to you. I understand why it’s being done to you. i take that knowledge to ground and strategically equip you.”
— Dr. Lisa Fox
Work With Dr. Lisa
Premium · Full Integration · Limited to 4 Clients
SACRED GROUND™
Full recovery + divorce strategy. Fully integrated. White-glove.
This is the most complete container Dr. Lisa offers. SACRED GROUND™ brings together full trauma recovery and divorce strategy in one fully integrated, white-glove experience — for the woman who needs both, handled simultaneously by someone who understands the psychology of what she is navigating from every angle. It is one deeply personal container that holds the whole of where you are — and brings you through.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF
You have clarity about what happened. You know who he is and what he is capable of. You are in or entering a high-conflict divorce and you need a woman in your corner who has studied his psychology as carefully as he has studied yours — and who can hold the full weight of both your healing and your strategy at the same time.
what’s included
— All six BEAUTY™ trauma recovery modules, fully integrated
— Divorce strategy sessions — mediation prep, legal positioning, negotiation coaching
— Weekly 1:1 sessions with Dr. Lisa Fox for the full container
— Nervous system regulation and somatic recovery work
— Real-time support during high-stakes moments: hearings, mediation, difficult exchanges
— Personalized playbook: his tactics, your counters, your non-negotiables
— Community: women who understand exactly where you are
"I walked into mediation and he couldn’t read me. I’d done the work. I knew his next move before he made it. I was ready."
— SACRED GROUND™ Client
signature offer
Signature Program · 12 Weeks
BEAUTY from ASHES™
The full 12-week transformation journey.
This is the core of everything Dr. Lisa Fox has built. BEAUTY from ASHES™ is a precision recovery program for the woman who is done surviving and ready to reclaim who she was before — and who she is becoming. Six modules. Twelve weeks. One woman in your corner who has studied your situation from every angle. By the time you’re done, you will not be the woman who walked in. You will be the woman who knows what she knows, trusts what she sees, and acts from her own center.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF
You know something is deeply wrong. You may still be in the relationship, recently out, or in the fog of early separation. You are done doubting yourself. You are ready to understand exactly what happened to you, reclaim your identity, rebuild your self-trust, and move from a woman who survives to a woman who acts from her own knowing.
what’s included
— All six BEAUTY™ modules: identity, boundaries, communication, regulation, strategy, and reclamation
— Weekly 1:1 sessions with Dr. Lisa Fox
— Personalized workbooks and strategic frameworks for each module
— Communication scripts: what to say when he tries to destabilize you
— Nervous system and somatic recovery tools integrated throughout
— Week 8 ascension pathway to SACRED GROUND™ for women whose divorce becomes active
— Community: women who understand without explanation
"I used to rehearse every conversation forty times before I had it. I do not do that anymore. I know what I know. I say what I mean. I move from my own center. I did not know that was possible for me."
— BEAUTY from ASHES™ Client
Strategy & Support · 12 Weeks
RISE from ASHES™
Grounded. Strategic. Unshakeable at the table.
RISE from ASHES™ is for the woman who is in active or approaching divorce and needs strategy as urgently as she needs support. Twelve weeks of precision work so that when she sits across from him at that table, she is prepared — not reactive. Calm — not afraid. Strategic — not surviving.
You will understand his playbook. You will have yours.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF
You know what you are dealing with. The divorce is happening or imminent. You understand his tactics but you still feel knocked off-center when he uses them. You need someone who can translate the psychology of what you are navigating into a real strategic advantage — at the table and in every exchange between now and then.
what’s included
— 12-week strategy and support container with Dr. Lisa Fox
— Divorce preparation: mediation readiness, legal positioning, negotiation coaching
— High-conflict communication frameworks — scripted, practiced, embodied
— Understanding his tactics and your precise counter-strategy
— Grounding and regulation tools for high-stakes moments
— Personalized workbooks and strategic frameworks for each module
"I came into mediation knowing his next three moves. I was not afraid. I was ready. I had a my strategy for every scenario — and I used it."
— RISE from ASHES™ Client
Strategy & Support · 12 Weeks
RISE from ASHES™
Grounded. Strategic. Unshakeable at the table.
CLARITY from ASHES™ is the beginning. For the woman who is still in the fog — who knows something is wrong but cannot yet name it, who is not ready for a 12-week commitment but is ready to stop living in the question. One focused VIP Day or two-week container that gives her clarity about what she is dealing with and one clear path forward.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF
You are still trying to figure out what is real. The confusion, the self-doubt, the low-grade dread — you cannot explain it but you cannot shake it. You need someone to help you name what you are living with, validate what you have been unable to say out loud, and give you a next step you can actually take.
what’s included
— Intensive 1:1 time with Dr. Lisa Fox: VIP Day or 2-week container
— Clarity session: naming what is happening and what it means
— Your personalized next step — specific, clear, and actionable
What Women Say After Working With Dr. Lisa
“she believed me when no one else would.”
— GL
“She sees the whole picture — the numbers, the trauma, the patterns, and the person.”
— SH
“for the first time in months i felt centered.”
— PD
“she has the uncanny ability to meet you where you are while also moving you forward toward healthy decision making.”
— CN
“i didn’t rise up a pheonix, i rose up a dragon.”
— CT
you know something is wrong.
it’s not nothing.
it’s the beginning.
If something on this page has felt like it was written for you — it was. The next step is a 30-minute Clarity Call. No sales pitch. No pressure. Just a real conversation about where you are and what’s possible.
You’ve Been Waiting for Someone to Finally Tell You the Truth.
This is that person. This is that place.
Dr. Lisa has worked with women who couldn’t trust their own memory. Women who apologized for things they didn’t do. Women who stayed because their faith told them to. Women who left and found the battle only got harder. Women who had tried everything — therapy, counseling, pastoral advice, prayer — and still felt like they were falling.
What they needed wasn’t more support. They needed someone who could see the whole picture, name what was actually happening, and build a plan from it. That’s what Dr. Lisa does.
If something on this page felt like it was written for you — it was.
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