FOR FAITH-FILLED WOMEN NAVIGATING COERCIVE CONTROL, NARCISSISTIC ABUSE, AND EMOTIONALLY DESTRUCTIVE MARRIAGES.
You Are Not crazy.
You are seeing exactly
what is happening.
You've been confused, blamed, and exhausted — on purpose.
Dr. lisa doesn't just understand what was done to you.
She understands exactly how it was done, who did it, and what they'll do next.
Most coaches and therapists treat what happened to you.
Dr. Lisa studies who did it.
She connects the dots others don’t even recognize are dots — the finances, the patterns, the trauma, the abuser’s psychology, and the person standing in the middle of all of it. You.
When you work with Dr. Lisa, the goal isn’t just healing. It’s full restoration - emotional, physical, and spiritual.
“She didn’t just study trauma. She studied abusers. I received strategic expertise, not just emotional support.”
— HH
Just truth — clearly spoken, from someone who understands exactly what you’re living.
If Any of This Sounds Like Your Life,
You’re in the Right Place.
You’ve walked away from another long conversation with no resolution of the issue. You walk away more confused than when it started.
You’ve been told to pray more, submit more, try harder. And things only get worse.
You apologize constantly — but you’re never quite sure what for.
You’ve sat in a counseling session and left feeling like the problem, not the person being helped.
You don’t trust your own memory.
You know something is wrong. And nothing you do makes it right.
I believe you.
It’s not because of you. It’s happening to you.
you have spent years managing his moods, rehearsing conversations before having them, and being told you’re the problem.
You are not the problem. What you are living with has a name. And there is a precise, strategic path through it — led by a woman who has spent a decade studying not just survivors, but the psychology of the people who harm them.
I know what he is doing. I know why he’s doing it. I take that knowledge and equip you with strategic advantage.
Below you’ll find ways we can work together. Every path leads forward. Begin where you are.
She Doesn’t Just Understand What You’re Going Through.
she understands who did it.
Dr. Lisa Dawn Fox has spent more than a decade studying two things most coaches only study one of: the women who are living in the aftermath of coercive control — and the abusers who created it.
That dual lens is what makes her different. She can sit with you in the pain and tell you exactly what happened, why it happened, and what your abuser is likely to do next. That’s not just emotional support. That’s strategic expertise — and it’s that expertise which makes the difference.
She is faith-integrated in everything she does — which means she will never ask you to choose between your healing and your faith. She will challenge bad theology that has been weaponized against you. And she will tell you the truth, even when it’s hard to hear.
credentials & Certifications
✓ Doctorate in Surgery (Dr.) —Surgical, medical and clinical foundation
✓ UC, San Diego —BA Psychology, Double Minor Biology and Chemistry
✓ Master Certified Professional Coach (MCPC) —Certified Life Coach Institute — highest coaching credential level
✓ ICF-Credentialed (ACC) —International Coaching Federation
✓ APSATS-Credentialed (CPC) —Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model (MPTM) — Betrayal Trauma
✓ Domestic Abuse Victim’s Advocate —Certified advocacy for survivors of domestic abuse
✓ Deconstructing Gaslighting Specialist -Certified (CDGS) —Specialized training in gaslighting identification and recovery
✓ Divorce Coach-Certified —Strategic support through the divorce process
✓ WILD Clarity Coach-Certified —Specialized training in abuser identification and Spiritual abuse
✓ Neuro Transformation Coach-Certified —Specialized training in Neuroscience to heal trauma
Dr. Lisa works in collaboration with a trusted network of specialists — including Private Investigator and Personal Protection Strategists, Certified Divorce Financial Analysts, Certified Divorce Mortgage Authorities, Certified Attorneys, Social Service professionals, and other vetted experts. When your situation calls for a specialist she doesn’t cover personally, she knows exactly who to bring in.
“She sees the whole picture — the numbers, the trauma, the patterns, and the person ”
— SH
Dr. Lisa Dawn Fox is a certified trauma recovery coach and coercive control specialist. She is not a licensed therapist or mental health professional. All coaching services are for educational and strategic support purposes only and do not constitute therapy, medical advice, or legal counsel.
a network built for every stage of your journey
Not sure where to start? Start here — it’s free.
The ‘Finally, Someone Gets It’ playlist is a free collection of every expert conversation Dr. Lisa has had on narcissistic abuse, coercive control, and faith. No searching. Just truth, back to back.
the Dr. Lisa difference
There are coaches who understand trauma. There are therapists who understand abuse. There are financial advocates who understand divorce. Dr. Lisa understands all of it — at once — through a faith-integrated lens. Here’s what that means for you.
She Studies Abusers, Not Just Survivors
Most coaches focus entirely on healing what was done to you. Dr. Lisa studies who did it — their psychology, their tactics, the patterns they follow, and the moves they make next. That means you don’t just recover from the last attack. You see the next one coming before it lands.
She Connects the Dots Others Don’t Know Are Dots
The finances. The legal exposure. The abuser’s psychology. The trauma patterns. The faith questions. The custody implications. These things look separate — but they aren’t. Dr. Lisa sees the whole picture at once and builds a plan from all of it, not just one piece.
She Has a Framework — Not Just Empathy
Empathy matters. But it doesn’t get you out. The BEAUTY from ASHES Method is a structured, proven framework built specifically for intelligent, faith-filled women navigating coercive control. It is a plan with a destination — not an open-ended process that keeps you circling the same pain.
This isn’t therapy. iT’s not a support group. This is a strategic partnership with a specialist who has spent years at the exact intersection where your faith, your trauma, your abuser’s psychology, and your future all meet.
she enters here.
She enters doubting her own reality.
She enters triggered and reactive in every interaction with him.
She enters terrified of confrontation and walking on egg shells.
She enters frozen, unable to make decisions.
She enters with her identity erased.
She enters isolated, embarrassed, unable to explain her situation.
She enters saying yes when she means no, people pleasing out of fear.
She enters surviving.
she leaves here.
She leaves certain of what she saw, what happened, and what she knows.
She leaves calm, grounded, and strategic — even under pressure.
She leaves prepared, regulated, and living from her own center
She leaves clear on her non-negotiables and her next step.
She leaves knowing her feelings and needs, with her identity reclaimed and expanding.
She leaves supported, believed, and part of a community that gets it.
She leaves living from her protective boundaries, communicates clearly and honestly.
She leaves flourishing on sacred ground.
Ways to Work With Dr. Lisa
Every woman who comes to Dr. Lisa is navigating something different — different levels of urgency, different stages of the journey, different needs. These four paths are designed to meet you where you are and move you forward from there. All of them begin with a Clarity Call.
the woman you were before him is still here.
He took her voice, her certainty, her sense of self.
now she’ll rise to reclaim her voice, her truth, and the life that is hers.
What Women Say After Working With Dr. Lisa
“she believed me when no one else would.”
— GL
“She sees the whole picture — the numbers, the trauma, the patterns, and the person.”
— SH
“for the first time in months i felt centered.”
— PD
“she has the uncanny ability to meet you where you are while also moving you forward toward healthy decision making.”
— CN
“i didn’t rise up a pheonix, i rose up a dragon.”
— CT
you know something is wrong.
it’s not nothing.
it’s the beginning.
If something on this page has felt like it was written for you — it was. The next step is a 30-minute Clarity Call. No sales pitch. No pressure. Just a real conversation about where you are and what’s possible.
You’ve Been Waiting for Someone to Finally Tell You the Truth.
This is that person. This is that place.
Dr. Lisa has worked with women who couldn’t trust their own memory. Women who apologized for things they didn’t do. Women who stayed because their faith told them to. Women who left and found the battle only got harder. Women who had tried everything — therapy, counseling, pastoral advice, prayer — and still felt like they were falling.
What they needed wasn’t more support. They needed someone who could see the whole picture, name what was actually happening, and build a plan from it. That’s what Dr. Lisa does.
If something on this page felt like it was written for you — it was.
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