Abuse is defined by the entitled existence of a pattern of damaging behaviors rooted in the misuse of power and control over others
Does your partner:
believe they have more influence with others because they believe they are better than?
believe others should do what they want, prioritize their needs, and defer to their wishes?
gain control of situations by turning people against each other?
dictate what everyone in the home should believe or think?
have the inability to agree to disagree?
steal other’s ideas?
take credit for other’s accomplishments?
act aggressively towards those who disagree with them or act with perceived disrespect?
expect others to keep secrets to protect their image?