Exploring the shadows… Healing the soul
Are you so threadbare that even if you wanted to take a step towards safety and peace, you can’t fathom what that step would be?
I know you're devastated, brokenhearted and have no idea which way to go. I see you. Let’s figure it out together.
I’VE BEEN WHERE YOU ARE
Hi! I’m Lisa Fox
Like you, I’m known by different names by different people - Lisa, Doc Fox, Dr. Fox, Mom, Mama, Gigi, Sister, Friend, Confidante, Partner in Crime. You get my drift. If you’ve found me, it’s likely we share a name - Survivor. Like you, I found myself sifting through shadows to find the truth in the lies. It broke me. I was so overwhelmed and exhausted, I couldn’t put a thought into words. In desperation I found hope and healing for my heart and soul…and I want that for you.
What I Offer
Helping you reclaim sacred ground, gain clarity, and restore physical, emotional, psychological, and spiritual strength is my priority.

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Betrayal Trauma and Abuse Coaching For Women
As an advocate, mentor, and coach over the last twenty years, I’ve helped hundreds of women see that what they’re experiencing in their relationships isn’t because of them. It’s what’s happening to them. I have an intimate level of experience and wisdom when it comes to the debilitating physical, emotional, psychological and spiritual effects of betrayal, abuse, and coercive control.
It takes courage to choose you, to consider choices that align with your values and beliefs.
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Healing Begins When We Bravely Share Our Stories
Advocacy is my passion. Whether it’s for the women I served as a Teaching and Speaking Leader, for my patients as their surgeon, or the women I coach devastated by betrayal trauma and abuse, advocacy is what inspires me. As a Shero, I’ve done the deep, transformative work. I believe that what you’ve learned isn’t meant just for you. It’s meant to be shared.
Interested in having me speak at your event, podcast, retreat or summit?
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Masculinity Redefined Coaching For Men
As a survivor, I've experienced firsthand how destructive entitlement and control can be—not just to those being harmed but to the men wielding them. Entitlement and control have no place in a healthy relationship. True empowerment begins when we trade entitlement for accountability and control for compassion. True empowerment uplifts, supports, and inspires. My passion is to encourage a shift in mindset for men, redefining their roles, embracing empowerment through service, compassion, and purpose.
It takes bravery to step into the life you were designed for with integrity and purpose.
Providing you with support to create a safe space for deep transformational work is my priority.
As a trauma and abuse survivor, I’m uniquely qualified to walk this journey with you. I’ve been where you are. And I’ve done the deep work to live this one wild and precious life. So I know something you don’t…If I did it, you can too.
I’m credentialed with the leading global organization for coaching standards, the International Coaching Federation(ICF), am a CPC-Candidate with The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists(APSATS), and certified as a Master Certified Professional Coach(MCPC). Additionally, I’m a certified Domestic Abuse Victim’s Advocate by the state of California, and am certified as a Divorce Coach.
I adhere to the utilization of Practice Based Evidence as well as Evidence Based Practice Tools and the Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model(MPTM). I’m intimately aware of the harm caused utilizing outdated approaches to healing such as:
• traditional couples counseling when any type of abuse exists within a relationship, including any type of sexual acting out
• the co-dependency model
• the co-addiction model
Touchstones
I don’t know where you are in your journey; yet, somehow you found me. Let’s remain connected and I’ll keep you updated on upcoming speaking engagements, instagram, and blog posts.
Are you unsure?
Are you questioning whether or not you’re in a toxic relationship? I’ve curated some invaluable resources to help you assess whether that’s a possibility or not.
If they help, share my site, instagram, or name with someone else you know who may need me.

The client/coach relationship is sacred ground
As I only accept client’s I know I can help, we’ll connect over a 30-minute consultation. Due to the deep transformational work we’ll be doing together, I want to be sure we’re the best fit for each other.